Welcome back to Same Bed, Different Blankets, I am Tunde, Folake is here, and tonight we are not reading a letter, because tonight is about us. In 2021 we had two small children, two demanding jobs, a generator that kept failing, and a marriage that had quietly turned into a very well-run company. We shared a bed. We shared a bank account. We shared a school run. We did not share much else for almost eight months. We were polite. That was the frightening part. Nobody was shouting, so nobody noticed. Tonight Folake is going to say what it felt like from her side, I will say what I was pretending not to see, and we will tell you the one sentence at the kitchen sink that changed it. You are listening on Witspeak Podcasts.