Good evening, and welcome to Same Bed, Different Blankets. I am Tunde, that is my wife Folake on the other sofa, the children are finally asleep, and we have about forty minutes before one of them wakes up. This is a show about marriage, the real one, not the one in the wedding photos. Tonight we have a letter from Abuja. Ngozi was promoted in March. She now earns about twice what her husband Emeka earns. Emeka says he is proud, and I believe him. Then his mother came to visit, and at Sunday lunch she asked, in front of everyone, who pays the rent in this house. Now nobody is talking. Folake has been the higher earner in our house for six years, so she will go first, and I will try to survive it. You are listening on Witspeak Podcasts.